A Quandry

After coming home from a highly enjoyable evening with friends, I realize I am faced with a huge problem.
As much as I don't have a significant other, which is the bane of my existence, and as much as my dream is to move back to NY...I have friends here.
I have friends I can go to the movies with, friends to go out to dinner with, friends to come over and just hang with.
It's been years since I've had that.
I have no family, no Jewish community to call my own...things that worry me.
But I really do love the fact that I have friends again.
Do I stay or go?
Just not sure...